Tuesday, June 3, 2014

The American Dream: Faith, Love, and the Perfect Slice of Pizza

            Walking into Pizza Plus Pizza, a popular little pizza shop in Natick Centre, you might not expect a slice of philosophy to be served up with lunch. It’s what was at the top of the menu however, when I sat down for an informal interview with proprietor Kamil this past Sunday. Pizza Plus Pizza has been one of my favorite haunts since I was a little kid, and measuring my height against the stainless steel counter top was something I always looked forward to, though not as much as the pizza itself, which in my opinion, remains the best in town. Though I’ve known Kamil since I was small, I’ve never had a truly personal conversation with him, and it was a pleasure to just sit down and talk, albeit for only half an hour. With the little television and the comforting sounds of busy pizza production in the background, Kamil opened up.
            Kamil, as I knew, hails originally from Egypt. Born in 1969, he is the youngest of ten children, all of whom graduated college, a source of pride for the family. After graduating college however, Kamil pursued a number of different careers, for varying lengths of time. He worked with the Egyptian department of education for six years, as well as living in Italy as a receptionist for an Italian tourist company.
            When speaking of learning Italian, though he is not fluent, Kamil stressed how important bilingualism, and how “when you learn [another language] you can deal. When you learn you can educate yourself, and take another step ahead.” In Egypt, the native language is Arabic, and Kamil started learning English at 11 or 12 years of age, similar to how the United States has middle schoolers start Spanish or French at the same age. Now, he tells me, English is being taught in those as young as kindergarten. “I believe that even from the A-B-C’s you should learn another language,” Kamil says, “A child is like a white page, you can write whatever you want on it, you can learn.” It’s this conviction that leads him to speak Arabic in the home to his children, though English is predominant in their lives. “I try to encourage them in the house to speak our native language, to keep it as a skill,” he says. “All language is skill.”
            Coming to America didn’t require skill in the same sense, however, but faith, and extraordinarily good timing. In fact, when I asked about his decision to come to America, he smiled and said that it was not his plan, “but God’s plan.” Some thousand men and women stand in line every day to get visas, and maybe only 5 or 6 are given out, but his application for a green card was accepted, and in 1999, Kamil stepped off the plane in JFK airport in New York. From there, following a community member’s advice, he boarded a bus to Boston, not even knowing where it was, in pursuit of a promised job opportunity at Pizza Plus, and three days after landing in America, he was already working.
            “I had never worked in [a] Pizza Place before,” he said, “I had not even been [a] big fan of eating pizza before I came here! That’s tough.” After insisting that Pizza Plus serves my favorite pizza in the world, Kamil smiles, thanks me, and says “we do it with love, because with love is the only way we can exist.” And that love tripled when in 2004 Kamil became an American citizen, and was able to bring his wife of three years, and their young daughter over from Egypt. According to Kamil, five years are required before you can become an American citizen, and he spent those years building a foundation, working both at Pizza Plus and part time elsewhere, over 80 hours a week, looking, as he said, “for the opportunity. “
            Opportunity knocked again when Pizza Plus’s previous owner decided to sell the business. Without the funds to purchase it in full, Kamil bought the business with two partners. Before long, however, it became too small for the three of them, “because we’re all supporting families, and the families are growing.” When the three of them decided to go separate ways, Kamil took the initiative and finally purchased Pizza Plus Pizza for his own. “This is the land of opportunity,” Kamil says, knowing countless immigrants have said it before him, and “Right now I’m happy with it, because it’s the resource I can support my family [with].”
            The opportunity of coming to America has its struggles as well, though. “I spent 21 years learning through college, and now I’m making pizza,” Kamil said. The tough part is given all the years of study in Egypt, and the change of the career all of a sudden.” The immigrant experience also had its downsides. Kamil told me about when his father died, and he was not able to return home. To return home would have required a 12-hour flight, plus another eight hours inside the country. “This is the price of being immigrants,” Kamil said.
            When asked about what gets him through the hard times however, Kamil has his answer ready: faith. “Faith is number one,” Kamil said. “We believe in ourselves, and we believe in God.” And Kamil insists it’s not just the work, but practice as well. “If I go through [a] hard time, and I have no friends, no family, I lift it up. And I find [an] answer always.”
            My last question was more for myself than anyone else. “If someone asked you for a piece of general advice, what would you say to them?” “There are two ways,” Kamil said, “One way leads you to success, one way leads you to maybe either death or jail. We can decide which way we can go.” Casting around for the right words to make sure his advice is sound, Kamil decides on what is known as the classic rags-to-riches mantra, “If you work hard, you’re going to reach the point that you want. Nothing is impossible unless we believe it’s impossible.” Kamil tells me that we are the ones who make our future, and that if we’re good people, with good hearts, and good relationships around us, we can find success someday. Based on that definition alone, Kamil is one of the most successful people I’ve met.
            My pizza comes, handed to me by another smiling man I’ve come to recognize at Pizza Plus. He is also from Egypt, and I wonder what his story is like. As I look down and dig into my “Brian Special,” pepperoni, extra cheese, and black olives, named for my dad, Kamil smiles at me. Though he’s a shy and profoundly humble man, he looks pleased with himself after our interview. Once I’ve put away my audio recorder, he wants to add something. “One more thing,” he says excitedly, as his last thought occurs to him. “America is [a] blessed land. This I believe. Even everywhere you see is green. Make what you can with your opportunity. You will find it.”

            And as I walk out of Pizza Plus Pizza and into the brilliant summer day, I believe it.

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